New word I developed.
The door read “Therapy Group”.
Inside in a circle of chairs were different types of people. The first person stood up and said, “My name is Jim and I am a construction worker and I suffer from loss of Individua-Sexuality”. The group said “Hello Jim!” He went on to say, “It has been 2 years since I have been able to cat call at a pretty woman going by the construction site. I have no feeling of being who I really am, and that is a construction worker who likes to whistle at pretty dames”.
Next this elder woman stood up and said, “Uh hello, my name is Agnes and I am a teacher and I suffer from loss of Individua-Sexuality”. The group said, “Hello Agnes!”. There was bewilderment in the crowd of how she was going to explain this one. She sheepishly said, “In my part time I write BDSM erotica and I cannot let anyone know what I do”. She went on, “I write it dirty and love a good spanking but I can’t tell anyone and that is why I have a loss of Individua-Sexuality”.
Loss of Individua-Sexuality is when you cannot be who you want to be because it is either not PC or fear of family or friends shunning you.