Okay so there is the point when you cannot do an elaborate outing. Well that is the time you prepare for more of a sensual time. Look especially for fellows, there is the time of the month when most women cannot embrace the full on sexual time, or you are not into it or both. So that is when you should be sensual.
So this is the time to give a massage.
Prepare for a sensual moment. Setup some candles, or if you don’t have any candles go get some. Don’t scrimp on the candles, get some real good ones that have a nice smell. Such smells as Vanilla or a jasmine are good ones to use.
Prepare for it also by getting some nice soft music. Go ahead and either get a radio on a soft station, as a good jazz station or a CD that plays soft music. Test the CD out to make sure that the whole CD is soft and not a few songs on it. As you want to take your time and give a good massage, at least one that lasts more than your sexual outing. Take your time and flow with the music.
Also to prepare for this, get a good lotion for a massage nearby. Set all of this up and try to use the lotion by yourself. Picture you have your loved one stretched on the bed, and you want to get some more lotion to add to the smoothness, this is where you will see how cumbersome it may be. Best lotion is one that has a pump to it. Also, check to see what it smells like, as you want something soothing. Jasmine is a smell that offers relaxation, but I am not saying it has to be Jasmine.
Prepare yourself to lightly speak to your lover while giving this awesome relaxing massage. Test out a few sentences that you can softly whisper in their ear. Tell them that you love them. Tell them how much they mean to you and always tell them how much you need them in your life. Explain things that they have done for you that has made your life more enjoyable.
Also this is a great way that when sex can be enjoyed, it is a way to get things going.
Go Play and Have Fun Safe Sex, well for this one, Fun Safe Sensual time