Let’s Add Something New and Kinky Part 3

Now that we have dealt with food lets deal with play toys.  Now of course, the use of handcuffs, vibrators/dildos, silk ties and rope (which is my favorite toy to play with).  If you don’t use them, then you should give them a try, it will make it a bit spicier.  Let’s go over a few things first.  Sex is a great thing between two consenting adults, and I do mean consenting adults.  The number doesn’t have to be just two if there are more in the fun, then the more the merrier.

Ok so do you like bondage?  Do you like to tie up your lover or do you like to be tied up?  Or are you the more adventurous and like to do and be done to?  Here are a few ideas that may offer you some fun in and out of the bedroom.  First of all, let’s start with saran wrap.  Yes, I said saran wrap.  You can use it to bind the hands to start with.  It can also be used to bind the feet.  This depends on how much you want to get into it.  If you want to take it further, then wrap the arms against the sides.  Start at the top and start wrapping in a downward motion.  Do not wrap too tightly, as you don’t want to cut circulation.  There is something beautiful about a lover’s body wrapped in saran wrap, so yes make sure it’s clear, even though it is sexy with using the colored ones also.  Remember this when it’s Christmas as there are the red and green ones that make for a good present.  You can wrap as far down as you want to but remember if you cover the genitalia then you will limit what you can do to the naughty little whore.  If you decide to cut a whole for the hole, then be careful what you are cutting.  Also of note, if you have your favorite lube then lightly put it on the skin.  If you don’t have lube, go to your pantry and get that olive oil and use it lightly.  You may think this is not sexy, try it and you will change your mind as it will be fun.  Having fun brings about great sex and who does not want great sex?

Another household item is of course, the spatula, but you have heard that before.  She has been a naughty girl, so she needs a spanking, or he needs to be spanked.  This will depend on your sex or your lover’s sex.  If you have an erotica book or a porn magazine, then that will make a good item to use for a spanking.  After you use it, the book or magazine will have more memories than a good read.  You will laugh about it or think about the session, once you have used it.  Be careful though, the book does offer more force, so be careful of how far back you swing when you swat that behind.  As in preparation section, try it first on the inside of your thigh.

Spanked

Make that bottom red

Now we always discuss spanking that ass, but let’s look at other parts of the body.  There are erogenous zones all over the body, which will be discussed in another post, and some of these zones like to be aroused and some do not.  The most noted erotic spots are the genitalia, breasts and thighs, so test those spots out.

I am trying to keep this to a few minutes read so, I will discuss more household items in the next post.

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Let’s Add Something New and Kinky Part 2

This is part 2 of this blog and I think you might like some of these or you may get your own ideas.  I like the idea of candles of course and the short and simple of it is that candles can make a good erotic part of your sexssion.  I won’t go into detail, but if you have never used candles then I suggest you read my blog of Preparation #1 as it details how to work with candles.

Now to add with that lets do a foodie thing.  Yes you did read food.  Here are some items that may have thought about, cucumber, banana, strawberries, but how have you thought to use them.  Example most think of cucumbers as the pleaser of the vagina.  Well guess what if you are deep inside her and she likes to suck on your thumb place that cucumber in her mouth and let her suck away at it.  Erotic for both.  Also could be said with a banana but face it is mushy and if you are in a good motion she will choke on that banana.  If you want to amp it up a bit put that cucumber in her ass while you are deep inside and then later you can peel it and still have it for your salad, lol just kidding, or am I.  So here is a good twist to the strawberries, as you cannot put them in her vajayjay as they will cause a pH unbalance but you can get some plain yogurt that is unsweetened or natural and slap that all over that pussy and lick it off her and with each bite eat a strawberry or a slice of kiwi or whatever you like your pussgurt to taste like.

When melons are in season, half them things up and place one on each of her melons.  Then toss some whip cream in there and smoosh them all around.  Make them breasts messy.  Speaking of messy, if at all possible take a time to have kitchen floor sex with all these food items.  You know as well as I do, you don’t want to get grandmas comforter messy, but if you take this to the kitchen and it gets messy then it’s an easy clean up.  This can also be done in the shower or in the bathtub, come on get creative.  Ok so if you can’t do this in the kitchen as you have kiddies that would have an aversion to fruit if they see mommy or daddy diddle the fruit and are scarred for life.  Go buy a new shower curtain and use it on your shower and take the old one and use it as a mess catcher.  Yes you can put across your bed or place it in the floor and go at it.  Also, get some ice cream and use it as a mouth stuffer and drill till you add cream.  Also it is always a pleasure to use ice and if you have her tied up or if she is a submissive or slave then to watch her skin move to the touch is erotic.

More to cum, X

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Preparation #1

When you are going to do something, preparation should be on the forefront of your thoughts.  If you want to do something properly take the time to prepare for it so you will have a better time and wont feel inadequate about it.  First of all, as most know if you want to have sex and there is no birth control then you must prepare for the situation by going to the store and getting condoms.

If you want to experiment with BDSM, it is the same thing you must prepare for it.  If you want to start lightly with it, then of course, there is spanking.  Prepare for it by first getting the item that you will be using to spank your lover with.  Second take it and hit it on your thigh to see what intensity it offers.  This will teach you a lot about what you will be using and what you won’t be using.

If you want to turn up the heat a bit and want to experiment with wax, then buy a few different types of candles and burn them.  Then slowly practice drizzling the wax off the candle onto a plate.  This of course will give you an idea of which candles will be easier to drizzle and which more or less drop.  Then it is also best if you try and use the candle that you find to drizzle on your skin.  This will give let you know what heights you can be at with the heat intensity of the candle wax.  Note wax is hot and it can burn if drizzled too close to the skin for first timers.  Take your burning candle and at about 24 inches above your thigh drizzle some and feel the heat intensity.  Now slowly move it closer to your skin.  This will give you at what height is best.  Also, to reduce heat to your lover use your hand as a deflector of the wax so it hits your hand first and then to your lover.  Best places to drizzle wax, in my opinion of course is the back, the breasts, the thighs, the butt and I like to do a controlled drizzle about 3 inches above the clit.  I enjoy pulling the wax off, especially when I have drizzled a lot in an area that cakes together and it can have a great sensation on the person that was receiving it.

Preparation makes it more fun and enjoyable and I will add more to the list of things to do to prepare for a fun and safe time.

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